How
Your Dog Can Help You Heal After A Divorce
Dogs
can play a pivotal role in the healing process after a divorce. When your world has been turned upside down,
you can rely on man’s best friend to comfort you and be there for you in times
of despair. When dealing with many of the emotions that arise from a divorce,
such as anger, loneliness and sadness, your dog can help you on the road to
recovery and speed the healing process.
After
my own divorce, I was emotionally drained. I had spent a year and half in a
long drawn out court battle. The last thing on my mind was to take on any new responsibilities.
But after a few months, as I began the process of mourning the death of my
marriage, I yearned for a new companion, but not a human one. I decide I wanted
a dog.
I
was feeling lonely, but was not ready to get into a serious relationship with a
new man. What I craved was attention, loyalty and unconditional love, something
only a four legged furry friend could provide. After all, what man jumps up and
down every time you come home, greets you with wet, sloppy kisses and is happy
just to be in your presence?
I
began my quest to find my new love and I found my new baby, a tiny Maltese, who
I name Luigi. My days and nights became consumed with his separation anxiety,
wee wee pad training and obsessing over what puppy food to feed him. But I no
longer dwelled on my recent divorce. Caring for Luigi was a welcomed
distraction.
Luigi
is now two years old and provides me with many laughs. He is a delightful
and spoiled little dog. I was blessed to have
him come into my life. He has helped me heal from my divorce by providing me
with the very things I needed most at the time,
love, comfort, acceptance and to feel needed
again.
Dogs
can be miracle workers in our lives and are angels that do not judge or condemn
us.
They
are there for us in the best and worst of times. If your heart has been broken
and you feel like you cannot trust again, seek comfort from your furry,
faithful best friend. With a dog at your side you can get through anything life
throws your way.
Christina Rowe is the author of the
best selling divorce book "Seven Secrets To A
Successful Divorce-What Every Woman Needs To Know". Find out the survival
skills that will save you time, money and heartache during your divorce. For
your free chapter of
the book go to:http://www.secretsofdivorce.com